Thursday, March 20, 2014
Sometimes you just need some time and space and a place to think about things. And to not think about guilt blogging.
A call to move forward.
In like a lion out like a lamb.
Buds on trees.
I'm beginning to wonder if March isn't one of my favorite months...
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Ian says, "I'm thankful for friends." (and then added "Can I go play with friends Right Now?")
Landon says, "I'm thankful for being nice." Then clarified, "I'm thankful for me being nice." (Me too kid.)
Charlie doesn't talk but he is thankful he gets Daddy and Grandpa time today building our wood shed.
I'm thankful for a husband and father in law who work hard in all aspects of life.
I'm thankful for resources and generosity of others that allow us to have what we need and live within our means. (Our wood shed when finished should hold 6 cords of wood and we'll have it all built for under $250 *hopefully* and there's a cool story about the shed that will be another post.)
Gratitude can change the tide of a day and give us peace when before there was turmoil and unrest. Thank goodness for social media platforms that remind us to be grateful.
Friday, November 1, 2013
I'm blogging today and that's good too.
It's not fun stuff today because I'm going to take a minute (or 5) and stand on my blogbox. (Like a soapbox only on the internet.) I will eventually get pictures of all the fun halloweeney stuff, but today I have an issue.
You see, last night at a Halloween party I overheard one woman asking another woman a very deep and personal question. The fact that I could overhear it should suggest that perhaps it was an inappropriate place. I mean, we were all sitting there. Now this person is family to the woman she was speaking to but that doesn't actually make her question appropriate.
She asked, "Did you get the wish of your heart?" Everyone knew what she was hinting at because of the
Wow. Can. of. worms.
(I will fully admit that I wasn't brave enough to speak up about it in that moment- but I have my own reasons that're nunya. And I'm speaking about it now because it's BUGGING ME.)
What a totally personal question to ask! I mean think about it for a minute: there's biology involved, perhaps the timing isn't right, perhaps the ph balance is off, perhaps one or both partners is infertile. There's emotions involved, perhaps she longs to be pregnant and shared her longing and her sadness that she wasn't and hope that soon she would be (in a previous conversation where the family member learned about her "wish of her heart") in an attempt to be real and vulnerable, not an attempt at a popular status update or fodder for future party conversations. There are relationships involved, namely between the woman and her husband. Maybe there are issues and they're not having sex (back to biology here). Maybe they're stressed out and it's messing with their chemistry (again, biology or chemistry or sciency stuff). Maybe she wants a baby but her husband doesn't, or vice versa. Maybe she longs for one physically but can't figure it out financially and is thus holding off. Maybe she worries about her health and has crazy bad morning sickness for 9 months and is hoping to have a newborn even with all the sacrifice it means. Maybe she's had miscarriages before and is scared. Maybe she was pregnant last week and miscarried but isn't ready to shout from the rooftops her pain. Maybe she started her period that morning and her hopes were once again dashed.
And maybe the questioning woman was feeling awkward and didn't have much to go off of and so she brought up the one nugget of information so she felt included. Maybe she is naive and didn't think it would hurt her feelings. Maybe she felt like because they are family its ok? (Family trees do not make you inherently privy to details in another's life. That's a soapbox for another day.) Maybe there's a whole can of worms that she didn't mean to get into, she just needed something to say.
Whatever the case was, my heart hurt for the woman being asked such a private question in such a public setting.
So let's all take a moment to think before we speak. And on the occasions that our mouths vomit questions before we realized the damage, let us be willing to own our mistakes and say I'm sorry.
I'll step down now. You can get back to your Facebook overload of cute costumes and sugar comas.
27 days until my birthday if you want to send me a present :)
Friday, October 4, 2013
Funk Soul Brotha
Check it out now, Funk Soul Brotha:
I'm hoping that hot pockets and microwave Cheese Wheels (macNcheese wheels) counts for a meal because that's what we had for lunch. Don't judge. It was a major decision between that and something someone else cooked (aka fast food) that costs a lot more.
Currently I am writing from a fairly swirly allergy med haze.
Wish I could truly enjoy it. But I have to be psudo responsible until further notice. Or when Sean gets home. Whichever comes first. "Sponsibility" sure is a buzz kill though.
It's a good thing days like today don't come around too often or I'd be 600 lbs with BBQ sauce dripping from my chin. And one of my sons would be named Gilbert. And they'd have to burn the house when I die. (Spoiler. Sorry. I wasn't myself.)
Boychild the first is walking home.
It's cold outside with a lovely, icy north wind a blowin'. Knocked over our trashcans (which some dog enjoyed throwing about the contents on our lawn). Goodthing Firstborn has his big ol' coat. No snow here. I'm trying not to be grateful because we NEED the water, but I'm not ready for snow just yet.
The "ugly" wall is now simple, naked beams. Don't have a picture. They're on Sean's phone sorry. What a mess that was. Next time we start a home improvement/demolition job the first order of business is to look at the clock. If it is after noon we'll save it for another day. We started cleaning up the mess (of plaster and lath and DUST EVERYWHERE) around midnight and called it quits at 2 A.M. (Saturday/Sunday) I'm still finding things that we forgot (or didn't get to) wipe down.
Ok. The urge to nap is winning. Catch ya on the flipside. And go play the video one more time. It's a good one.
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Here are a few of my recent projects around the house. Please excuse the giant hole in the kitchen wall. It's on the list.
I'm not sure what order they will be in: this phone posts faster than our poor computer. Fruit basket. Heavy duty. Now in red. Pots and pans. Black upgrade from in laws (thanks again!). Like to hang around. Mantle pictures. Need to be hung on the wall. Wall-O-pictures. Added to. Still awaiting the ones on the mantle. Little projects. (not pictured are as follows) We now have a working dryer. We were waiting on a breaker. Breaker is in. No one got electrocuted. Win. One more sheet of drywall on the South wall. Master bedroom green accent wall. Trees trimmed. Fort built from said tree limbs. Two loads of wood cut and hauled. Two to go. Lots of work, but there has been some progress. Just no pictures till now.enjoy.
Monday, September 16, 2013
When I went out to check the mail I found this note on our door. It was a nice reminder that we are doing good things. I don't know who left the note because they didn't sign it but it sure brightened my day.Thanks neighbor.